We went out to I-Day with our DS. It was a fantastic trip, Colorado Springs is a beautiful area, we went hiking, spent time doing tourist things and he was able to run at altitude which helped him acclimate a bit.
My son was with the incoming class of athletes, the coaching staff met us in the morning and guided us through the I-Day. Could not have been a nicer day. Grateful to the coaches for staying with us until that evening when the parents were able to view the Tzo from the elevation of the Chapel and see the appointees getting lined up for shots and uniform issue. My wife and I left the next day with memories that defied description.
Two enduring memories for me, one was seeing my DS board the bus and giving us a small barely visible wave with his hand by his side. The other was seeing him again 3 months later at Parents weekend in his service dress with his 13 year old sister.
My point is that the service academies are not like any other school, you will be surprised how close you family can get with other parents of your classmates, total strangers will take you son or daughter out for meals, you spend hours advising others or being advised when you have questions or issues. So this four year journey that the appointee undertakes may be an individual accomplishment, but it is also something that is shared by the family as you go forward.
Just my two cents.
