Building work ethic

Daisy12

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My son (rising junior) wants to go to a SMC. I am very proud that he wants to choose this path, but I wonder if it is right for him. He has good grades and is a good kid. He doesn’t work particularly hard at things. Will SMC build a hard work ethic into him or will they chew him up and spit him out?
 
My son (rising junior) wants to go to a SMC. I am very proud that he wants to choose this path, but I wonder if it is right for him. He has good grades and is a good kid. He doesn’t work particularly hard at things. Will SMC build a hard work ethic into him or will they chew him up and spit him out?
Actually, the fact your son has indicated interest in attending an SMC is a good sign that he realizes he has more potential than he has displayed, and that being in a more structured environment with others under similar conditions will help him. Personally, I found that being constantly under pressure to perform to a standard, whether academically or militarily, was a great motivator. When everyone else was under the same pressure, it helped me perform better. Sure I could have failed, but the consequences of dropping out, were not the end of the world. And that vs the opportunity to succeed and fully realize my potential far outweighed this possibility. I would encourage him to fully explore what is expected of him at an SMC and not discourage him if he is willing to put forth the effort. Best of luck.
 
I seem to recall that some SMCs and ROTC programs have a "cadet for a day" program. Also, for a longer-term taste, there are programs like Sea Cadets that require some sustained hard work, and thus would be a good tryout for your son while in high school. DD was a Sea Cadet for years then went to a SMC for a year before being appointed to a SA. She thought Sea Cadets was worthwhile to prepare for both schools.
 
Echoing what @glen mentioned. If your son on his own has the desire to go to an SMC, then that’s a huge plus. My son was pursued by a rather notorious party college for his high school sport skills and we were certain he would end up there. My son was always the kid in silly trouble in high school, a B/C student, and the “Belushi” of his friend group. One day he announced he wanted to go to an SMC, put himself on a strict diet and workout program, and stunned us all. Kid is gonna make a great officer. But still a B/C student in everything except military science, lol. Point is, if he wants it bad enough, he’ll make it happen.
 
Not sure where you live, but VMI holds overnight visits for high school students with sessions for parents that we found very helpful and informative. Other SMC's may offer the same. A visit may help answer many of your questions and concerns. Good luck.
 
SMC may be perfect choice for your smart HS kid. My DS was your kid, too. Now he is rising 1st class at VMI and he has done very well there. DS needed the brotherhood, military environment, and the focus on academics. You are welcome to DM me.
 
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