Through my observations arose my epiphany, and my solace.
Last Spring DS attended CVW and NASS. During his time there I had the opportunity to meet parents and their DS’--all outstanding young men. Before CVW several parents, and our DS’s got together for dinner before check in. It was heartwarming to watch the boys instantly click…as if they’ve known each since grade school. After checking the kids in some of the parents met up and had appetizers, beverages and long conversations, and for that I am truly grateful; I met some wonder people and to this day we still stay in contact. During the day I toured the Yard and I found that if an opportunity presented itself I became fascinated with observing the candidates and midshipmen. While walking around I never intended to learn as much as I did through my observations, and as an unintentional consequence here’s what I took away from it: All, and I mean ALL, those kids had “it.” Not one candidate attending looked out of place; all had the same determination, motivation, and uniqueness to join the ranks of the c/o2019. And to be quite frank, IMHO, each and every one of them deserved a spot.
After returning home from NASS I received a call from a friend of mine, she asked how DS’ experience was at CVW and NASS. I chuckled and told her point blank, next Spring if DS doesn’t receive an offer of appointment to kick me in the rear end if I’m whining about an injustice. She was taken aback and asked, “why?” I expressed to her that there were 800+ kids just like DS, and I sure wouldn’t want the task of determining who receives an offer and who doesn’t. After my time on the Yard I adamantly believe Admissions knows how fill a class with a diverse group of future officers to meet the needs of the Navy, and have a greater appreciation for the difficulty of their job. Fast forward to present day. I’m honored that DS is still in the game. Also, for those of us who have a DS or DD that are still waiting to hear, it will be a disappointment if the dreaded TWE arrives, but I assure you it’s not because they aren’t qualified—they are.
My DS is still dedicated to his academics, sports, and ECA’s. He knows if he decides to apply again next year he can’t let up to have his class rank drop. He has the best plan possible if he’s not offered an appointment, a 4-year NROTC scholarship (along with a Trustee scholarship that will cover room and board.) I’m not troubled about DS receiving a TWE, just inpatient. After all, I was (my family would say I still am) the child who on Christmas Eve would sneak out of bed when everyone had fallen asleep and peek at my presents.
I’m hoping and praying all receive BFE’s, but if not keep in mind your DS or DD most certainly has “it,” and will go on to make a difference in this crazy world of ours.
Keep the faith.
*note: While at the Academy I did some research for a family friend who had several ancestors who attended the USNA circa 1871. If you like Naval Academy history I suggest going to archives up on the third floor of the library.