Ok, I am entertaining the idea of sending something other than my usual boring care package from home and have been checking out some Annapolis local favorites that put together fun things for mids....like cakes, cookies, a pizza, etc...you get the picture. However, my Plebe does not like to draw any attention to himself. Is it frowned upon as a 4/C to receive such things as a cake from a local bakery, etc? Would this completely put my mid over the edge if his mother did something like this? Or should I stay with my homemade care packages?