I have to say follow Hornet's advice. Going down that rabbit hole is one that never ends with anything less than a thread locked, and sometimes people getting banned. People are very set in their personal views and nothing will change them, kind of like the process of repealing DADT. It just always ends the same way.
Back on topic.
For the AF I think women entering now are very fortunate because they have had pioneers already in front of them for decades creating a path for them to follow.
We have women in fighters in combat missions, we have had squadron CCs that are women, Wing Queens instead of Kings. We have flag officers that are women. Basically, except for a few areas if you want it you can get it.
Jeannie Flynn is someone I admire to the Nth degree, and as a woman she is someone that paved the path for other women. It was not easy for her, but without her, I am sure it would have been questionable if Fifi could have broken the next barrier in being the 1st female Thunderbird.
OBTW, Jeannie did get it all, she is married to a 16 driver, has 2 kids, and a career. So in case the next question is what about family life? She is proof. I was also a Realtor and I can tell you that in the past decade many of my clients were female military members, where their DH gave up his career in the military to follow her around and be the stay at home Dad. When I say many, I mean I can count on both my hands and feet. It is becoming the new trend....whose career is the one to become the number 1 in the family, instead of he wins. In other words they decide who has a better chance of being promoted...notice I said many stay at home Dads.
The only people I think of that probably had issues with that question is Jeannie and the Hestermen's. He and his wife were both fast trackers. John at 34 was already promoted 2x at the 2 BPZ to LTC. He was so young that he had to sit in Col grade for yrs because of the regs to be promoted to Flag. His wife Jenni was also promoted fast too, she retired as an O6 with @ 20/21 yrs in as a Vice Wing Commander. Remember you have to stay in grade for yrs to retire at that rank, and if you are BPZ you are the last to pin on. In other words, she probably got picked up for O6 at the 16/17 yr marker.
OBTW, also check out Phyllis Gould, she is married to the AFA Supe. Lt. Gen. Gould. She also had a fabulous career in the AF, but opted to take a unique route.