As a matter of course, when
@clarksonarmy speaks, sit up and listen.
When I read the OP, I was ready to write that my DS successfully deferred his AROTC Scholarship, but that was 6 years ago. Based on his experience, I am a huge proponent of gap years for many kids given some hard and fast rules:
- At the end of the gap year, one should have a quantifiable achievement to show for the time spent. This would not include growing as a person, picking up garbage on Mt. Everest or helping your fellow man. Those are laudable goals and some institutions may happily bet on your success, but most really don't care.
- Have EVERY detail of your educational life-after-gap-year settled and ready to execute before the gap year even begins. The only exception would be in continuing to pursue scholarships, including an xROTC scholarship. There again, that is keeping a focus on one's return.
- Be prepared to change in that year and don't think you're the exception when it happens. It is the same for every college freshman away from home. There will be the same challenges of dealing with independence, questioning your past decisions, wondering how to get through the next week without Mom's meatloaf...
In any event, best of luck!