@nico98 I realize this is frustrating, to have paths apparently cut off.
See this link - it's accession standards.
http://www.med.navy.mil/sites/nmotc/nami/arwg/Documents/WaiverGuide/DODI_6130.03_JUL12.pdf
The Services may choose to waive certain DQs for different reasons, all mission-related. Within a Service, officers, because of certain roles only they fill, may not get waivers, while enlisted personnel may. There are reasons that underlie these decisions, and the Services have been making them a long time.
If officer paths are closed to you, and service is paramount to you, enlist, serve long enough to get full GI Bill benefit, and join the thousands of veterans on college campuses today. Or, surprise yourself, do well and stay in in the enlisted ranks, while obtaining college degree and advanced degrees through Tuition Assistance and the many distance learning or on-base college facilities. Patience is key, and it can be done. Or, go to college, then see what options are available to you. You may decide on a civilian career and join the Guard or Reserve as an enlisted member.
Flexibility and adaptivity in the face of change are key professional military traits. You thought you were doing USNA or NROTC, college and military and officer commission all in a tidy 4-year bundle. This may not be your path. The power is in your hands to find out what's possible, figure out what you want, and go after it.