Pima
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Bull,
I think that it is a little bit of a leap regarding his mindset.
Again, we don't have the facts, and we are living among assumptions. My guess is this is:
He feels people are jumping on him in a negative way, and he came to this site for assistance. If shoes were changed and you asked what you thought was a simple question, but instead it turned into a discussion you never expected, wouldn't you be a tad bit defensive which could appear now as an attitude?
LP if offered a scholarship, which I think has not occurred yet, he will need guidance in the next few months. As an ROTC cadet which would you prefer on the 1st day...a cadet that has some sort of an idea because he/she asked the "stupid"* question this site, and got strong direction, or the cadet that asks them all at O dark thirty when it is not about asking, but about running?
* Caveat there are no stupid questions, but I had to emphasize the negative aspect.
Remember you were once that 17 yr old in HS too. You were the big fish in the small pond, and now you are again the big fish, but a few yrs ago you were that small fish in the bigger pond. You will also soon be that small fish in the biggest pond (Army AD).
I am not trying to rag on you, I am not proud of my own digs to the LP, but it is time to let it drop in my opinion, for the good of not only the OP, but also for the incoming det that we support him and not make him run away.
I think that it is a little bit of a leap regarding his mindset.
Again, we don't have the facts, and we are living among assumptions. My guess is this is:
He feels people are jumping on him in a negative way, and he came to this site for assistance. If shoes were changed and you asked what you thought was a simple question, but instead it turned into a discussion you never expected, wouldn't you be a tad bit defensive which could appear now as an attitude?
LP if offered a scholarship, which I think has not occurred yet, he will need guidance in the next few months. As an ROTC cadet which would you prefer on the 1st day...a cadet that has some sort of an idea because he/she asked the "stupid"* question this site, and got strong direction, or the cadet that asks them all at O dark thirty when it is not about asking, but about running?
* Caveat there are no stupid questions, but I had to emphasize the negative aspect.
Remember you were once that 17 yr old in HS too. You were the big fish in the small pond, and now you are again the big fish, but a few yrs ago you were that small fish in the bigger pond. You will also soon be that small fish in the biggest pond (Army AD).
I am not trying to rag on you, I am not proud of my own digs to the LP, but it is time to let it drop in my opinion, for the good of not only the OP, but also for the incoming det that we support him and not make him run away.