One final note - the prudent midshipman always reads the Regs for themselves. An upperclass mid, a resident of that same large leadership lab I mentioned above, may think they know the answer and say something such as “Pre-existing relationship. You’re good.” Yes, there is a specific mention of pre-existing relationships, but not in all cases. I can’t tell you how many mids I fried during my time on staff there, and have watched sponsor sons and daughters get fried for, when they “shop,” cafeteria-style for the answer that seems legit and seems to allow them to do action X that they want to do. The “uh, my roommate’s brother graduated two years ago, and when we texted him, he said it was ok.” “I asked my youngster, and she said she knew someone in another company was allowed to do it, so I am good to go.” “My company commander allows us to do it.” The signer of MidRegs is the only authority who may allow exceptions, and those staff officers to whom he or she has delegated specific authority. That is usually not a midshipman, and may not even be at the company officer level.
As I said, one big leadership lab, experiments merrily bubbling away in every corner, some boiling over!