Hi there, thank you so much for posting. I have two questions.
1) I know USNA is by far and away my top choice school. When did your daughter become inspired to apply and when did she realize it was the right place (i.e., was it at a young age, during the college process, after she had been admitted and she toured, etc.)?
2) My parents are supportive, but still slightly apprehensive about me going to USNA. I have tried to reassure them that in all likelihood, I will not be in an Afghani desert shooting at terrorists, but I believe they are still concerned about the 9 year service commitment. It is expensive to fly out and tour (I live in CA, for reference), so I'm unsure of whether or not they'll be able to see the school for itself and gain the same perspective on the school. As a parent, did you have similar feelings about your daughter going and then realized it was the right place or were you completely supportive during her whole college process? If the latter is the case, what would you suggest I do to make my parents more comfortable and supportive of my choice to attend if that is what I decide?
Best phone call, ever.
Sounds very familiar. It’s something to work on. That’s what I told my DS - find out what to work on and then work on it - maybe at the slight expense of academic prowess.BTW - He made 'Dant's List for first semester with only a "B" in Aptitude keeping him from the Super List. That made him upset because Aptitude is chosen by upperclassmen who don't know the Plebes and the slots are limited, despite him earning a 3.6 GPA and ranking 4th in his Company. It's a stupid process. But we are proud of his passion and commitment.
Does having multiple nominations increase your chances of receiving an appointment?
Wait till mom gets the phone call "I am going Marine".
He is only a wet-behind-the-ears Plebe and my wife reminded him that he went in focused on Naval Engineering, sailing on ships, and designing new naval assets. But after six months he's already changed his mind and now focused on Marine aviation......
He made 'Dant's List for first semester with only a "B" in Aptitude keeping him from the Super List. That made him upset because Aptitude is chosen by upperclassmen who don't know the Plebes and the slots are limited, despite him earning a 3.6 GPA and ranking 4th in his Company. It's a stupid process......
Sounds very familiar. It’s something to work on. That’s what I told my DS - find out what to work on and then work on it - maybe at the slight expense of academic prowess.
I disagree that peer review is a stupid process. How you are perceived by both peers and subordinates alike is very important to effectiveness as a leader. If the Upperclassmen who did the ranking "don't know him, " it could be because he didn't stand out enough to get an A in Conduct/Aptitude. Competitive ranking of performance by superiors is a fact of life in the Navy, and will affect assignments and promotions for his entire career. Blaming the system as "stupid" doesn't help anything. I think there was another thread here recently talking about how to improve Aptitude ranking ..and my advice would be to sit down with the Squad Leader and talk to him/her about what he needs to do to get an A next Semester.
Yep it’s all a balancing/learning act. Smartest kid in ds’s class was very unliked by his classmates. Academics came at the expense of his social game. It all matters to be an effective leader. People have to like you to want to work for you.
He ended up declining his appointment. He still had the strong desire to serve upon graduation from civilian college, but a medical issue that arose while in college prevented it. While he now has a very successful life, he missed the opportunity to fulfill HIS dream, in large part b/c his mother didn't support it.
@usna1985 This is a sad story. Is it fair to say though that with medical issue he would have been medically DQ'd during USNA and have to leave anyway?
OP might have set up an automatic update so he or she keeps receiving updates. But, I think, this thread was hijacked(?) with several irrelevant subjects, he or she might be staying away.Where is the OP? I have a question.