In one of the books written about the post-9/11 war in Afghanistan, there’s a story of a warlord whose fighters rode alongside the famed “horse soldiers” — U.S. Special Forces who were the first on the ground.
With the enemies facing each other across a valley, the Americans called in an air strike that was executed by an Air Force AC-130 gunship. The allied warlord overheard an American soldier communicating with the gunship’s commander, who happened to be a woman. Upon realizing this, the warlord called the opposing warlord on his cellphone — yes, he really did — and taunted him with one of the lowest insults possible in that culture. To paraphrase: “You’re being bombed by a woman, you bumbling idiot! A woman! Ha, ha, ha!”
For the female officer above, I’m guessing it was just another day on the job.