OK! I'm weighing in.
Twin sons both on fencing team last year, and one chose to quit this season, but is hoping he'll make the boxing team.
Both (crazy galoots) declared Physics as their majors.
Their schedule for the 4* year was similar to ChristCorp's son's. One twin said he figured he had about 45 minutes a day that he could devote to himself & personal pursuits. Unlike football, fencing is a year-round sport and so the practice didn't let up until after April's NCAA championships.
They were not permitted to leave BCT at all, despite the fact that their first fencing tournament was early in September and that mean they were competing after not having even seen their fencing equipment since June.
While both my boys do well academically, even when they needed help, they did notice that the E.I. (Extra Instruction) conflicted with their practice time and neither ever went to a tutor. Dinner was also definitely an issue for them. They ran from the fieldhouse to Mitch's, getting in just before closing, and carried their dinner back to their rooms.
Both boys were proud and excited to be part of a Division I fencing program, and knew all about hard work. They were both used to hard work at home, both had 20 hr/week part-time jobs, took 16 college credits a semester (in addition to their high school work), and fenced every night for 2-3 hours, plus Saturdays. They are not lazy guys but were really swamped at USAFA. That said, at the Academy they were afforded the opportunity to travel to places they had never been: California (twice), N. Mex, TX, Indiana... I can't remember where all they went.
But, the hours are grueling, and there's little let-up. They miss a lot that their squadmates are doing. Their access to clubs and other activities is greatly curtailed. When they miss class for travel, they are completely responsible for make-ups, alerting instructors of their anticipated absences, etc.
So, there are some very cool advantages, but the distinct disadvantages are there as well, and no prospective Division I athlete should go into this thinking "wow! I'm great! they've recruited me!" It's not quite so simple at the Service Academies.
*As of this season, one remains on the team. The other, while very interested in boxing, has joined a couple clubs, is a correspondent for his squadron's parents' newsletter, and is having a much more relaxed life just now. Both guys: loving it! (mostly!
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