There have been several threads on this over the years.
One of your son’s best resources is a certified VA counselor in VA benefits. He can get accurate, current advice, rather than trying to figure out the benefits himself from the massive website of the VA or unofficial forums such as this, except to get some handy pointers.
These can be found at the big veteran service organizations, such as VFW, American Legion, AMVETS. Contact the local chapter or post. Also, DAV offers this service. All volunteer, no cost, no requirement to join the organization.
States and big metro area counties will often have veterans affairs offices (can have a variety of names) with similar certified counselors. Search their websites.
Additionally, every state has its own veterans benefits program. Look at your state name.gov website for the veterans affairs agency, department, division, etc. - it can go by a variety of names but will be recognizable. Browse through that for the state benefits. They will be unique to the state and different from the VA federal benefits. You might also find where the state benefit counselors hang out. They also know the fed benefits.
A few examples:
- We had a USNA sponsor mid alumni grad who returned to home state after being honorably separated after a year and found he could attend a choice of 3 state universities for his Master’s, tuition-free.
- DH is a veteran who met our state benefit criteria for being fully exempted from property tax (yay) and being able to register all vehicles in his name for free.
Resources - just to get your son started on the research to find out what organization is most convenient to assist him.
DAV (I became a life member, because they were so helpful to me when I retired. Again, membership is not required to use their services. Wonderful volunteers across all these organizations.)
DAV offers free services for veterans, including veteran employment services and help with VA benefits. Get help now.
www.dav.org
American Legion
The American Legion helps veterans and families understand and apply for benefits.
www.legion.org
VFW
The VFW’s nationwide network of VFW Accredited Service Officers and Pre-Discharge Representative are experts at navigating the VA system. These trained professionals assist veterans filing for their VA claims and help these veterans get the benefits they deserve.
www.vfw.org
AMVETS
www.amvets.org
As noted above, look for your state or county veterans benefits counseling resources at your state government website. That website typically lists the benefits.
Here’s my state of MD as an example;
veterans.maryland.gov
These days, colleges, universities and community colleges have someone in admissions or the bursar’s office who is trained and certified to work with veterans using their educational benefit. They are trained on applying the benefit, not necessarily on applying for it.
And, the DD-214 form is the all-important document. That is the key to validating his status, type of discharge, time in military service. Do not lose this! He will get this on or about his last day.
Down the road, if he is looking at federal service as a civilian, he may have disability hiring points. Veterans have their own hiring portal to the USAJOBS federal civilian job site.
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Assume he is back on your healthcare plan. He is probably eligible to use the VA for his primary care provider. That’s another big benefit area he should explore with a counselor. He can read about is on va.gov.