I have a history of hospitalization for an eating disorder. DoDMERB disqualified me, but I am wondering if there's any way I could get a waiver for this. I have been completely recovered for over a year and it has no impact on my daily life anymore. So far, the Academies haven't contacted me about it, except for USMA who said that they will not be pursuing a waiver, but this was before my application was completed. Is there anything I can do?
You may hear from Mr. Mullen, Deputy Director DoDMERB, who stands overwatch here and often offers to communicate privately to share insights.
Satisfy yourself by continuing to move through the process, and similar to other candidates, tend alternate plans should this not work out for you. The military sets its medical accession standards bar very high, as the goal is slways the welfare and safety of the entire unit down the road. Military people can operate for long periods of time in harsh, high-stress conditions, doing intense work, far from advanced medical care. The military looks for people with the least history of vulnerability, physically and mentally.
I applaud what it has taken for you to recover and manage your mental and physical health over the last year, but the relentless pressure-cooker of a service academy followed by military service may not be the best choice for you right now.
You have your college years coming up. You could see how you do living away from home in a college environment and those pressures, and a few years down the road, apply to a Service’s OCS or OTS program, college degree in hand and a history of good health and well-managed medical conditions, when it’s time nice again to meet those accession standards. You could try ROTC as a “college programmer,” but you will eventually run into the same DoDMERB standards.
The overall concern here is the unit health and safety that can be impacted by an individual’s medical readiness, as well as concern for the individual and not exacerbating or reawakening any existing problem.
Take good care of yourself and do what you need to do to stay positive and thrive.