Christcorp
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So, you're telling us that every cadet at West Point is suppose to, in there time there, tell all other cadets about EVERY experience in their past? You know this isn't true. I doubt that there is one cadet at West Point, currently or ever, that has divulged their entire past to all the other cadets there. Therefor, you are saying that no West Point cadet has honor. You can only deceive your friends by omission or commission, if they "Ask" you about something and you don't answer as expected. Well, when a question isn't "Expected", then you can't "EXPECT" an answer.
Look; you need to simply admit that what you meant to say, and what you did say, were not the same thing. You meant to say that even though DADT is a "POLICY", that "Unofficially", individuals may at time ask such a question. Therefor, the cadet being asked such a question would be forced to omit or even lie with their answer. And thus, have not acted honorably. Technically, this is true, and I agree with this. However, the honor code at the academy was NOT INTENDED to TRAP an individual. This is mentioned all the time. A PRIME EXAMPLE is drinking. The drinking age is 21 years old. A cadet goes home on vacation, and while there, drinks some beers with their dad on the front porch. When you get back, NO CADET is going to FORMALLY ask you if you drank alcohol while on leave. And no one is going to expect you to divulge such information openly. And therefor, there is no breaking of the honor code. THIS IS A FACT. This is not conjecture. This is a common everyday scenario. And if you say that when you get back from leave, that the academy is going to formally ask you if you were drinking, or that you are suppose to divulge to everyone else that you were drinking; and that not to do so is breaking the honor code; then sorry, but I call B.S.
The DADT policy is exactly the same thing. There are some things that simply aren't asked. And your sexuality and sexual preference is one of them. You can most definitely go 4 years at the academy and go another 5-20+ years in the military and never have to address this subject. Yes, unofficially such conversations may come up. This is why I think the DADT policy needs to be removed. But even with it in place, there are ways for a gay individual to not have this subject discussed. And not discussing it is NOT a honor violation. And it's only living a LIE if the question is officially asked of you and you give a false answer. But being the question can not be officially asked of you, it's impossible for you to give a FALSE answer. Getting rid of the "Unofficial" asking is another topic. It can be done; it's done every day in the military; but that is a different subject. And it has NOTHING to do with the honor code. Again, you know all this.
Look; you need to simply admit that what you meant to say, and what you did say, were not the same thing. You meant to say that even though DADT is a "POLICY", that "Unofficially", individuals may at time ask such a question. Therefor, the cadet being asked such a question would be forced to omit or even lie with their answer. And thus, have not acted honorably. Technically, this is true, and I agree with this. However, the honor code at the academy was NOT INTENDED to TRAP an individual. This is mentioned all the time. A PRIME EXAMPLE is drinking. The drinking age is 21 years old. A cadet goes home on vacation, and while there, drinks some beers with their dad on the front porch. When you get back, NO CADET is going to FORMALLY ask you if you drank alcohol while on leave. And no one is going to expect you to divulge such information openly. And therefor, there is no breaking of the honor code. THIS IS A FACT. This is not conjecture. This is a common everyday scenario. And if you say that when you get back from leave, that the academy is going to formally ask you if you were drinking, or that you are suppose to divulge to everyone else that you were drinking; and that not to do so is breaking the honor code; then sorry, but I call B.S.
The DADT policy is exactly the same thing. There are some things that simply aren't asked. And your sexuality and sexual preference is one of them. You can most definitely go 4 years at the academy and go another 5-20+ years in the military and never have to address this subject. Yes, unofficially such conversations may come up. This is why I think the DADT policy needs to be removed. But even with it in place, there are ways for a gay individual to not have this subject discussed. And not discussing it is NOT a honor violation. And it's only living a LIE if the question is officially asked of you and you give a false answer. But being the question can not be officially asked of you, it's impossible for you to give a FALSE answer. Getting rid of the "Unofficial" asking is another topic. It can be done; it's done every day in the military; but that is a different subject. And it has NOTHING to do with the honor code. Again, you know all this.