To the original poster, Ratrat, and Navy 1987:
If you find me one young man or woman who is not somewhat stressed about giving away a large portion of their freedoms for the next 10 years for any cause, you will have found me someone of great ignorance.
To the original poster, lashing out at people is not the best way to relieve stress, but as long as you have noticed the issue and are looking for a solution, you are doing good.