@VictoriaR I feel for you, and here goes - I'm going to respond as if you are my best friend or as if this was my child.
First, don't worry about the video - please know that, respectfully, the video quality was terrible. Osama B-L, Jimmy Hoffa, and 20 terrorists could have been in that video and the CIA would have missed them! Dark, lots of candidates not filmed. I wouldn't draw a conclusion based on not seeing her on that video, at all.
Second, I think the call before she turned her phone in means she reached the USO and checkin, and is OK. I take my DS's same call as that proof- he called as instructed while in queue to turn in his stuff at the USO. I think
if your daughter did not check in at the USO or on-site, NSI and/ or your school would have contacted you urgently. If you can, I think you should sit tight.
If you can't sit tight, then you're going to stir a pot here and your daughter won't like it, but do what you have to do. I would call back whoever you called initially, explain your situation and only ask if all female expected students arrived or are accounted for on checkin =that's really all you need to know. Maybe they can tell you that without more details, to assuage your concern. they will know this fact.
If they tell you one or more female candidates didn't arrive or aren't accounted for, then FULL STOP - hit the call buttons - Call both the unit and the red cross and explain you just need a confirmation that your daughter is on-site since you've heard one or more female candidates are unaccounted for. I would stress you don't need her to be disturbed and don't need to speak with her, only a wellness confirmation and only that she arrived. Here are the details on how to reach the Red Cross. When Midshipmen family members experience an emergency, most often the death or serious illness of a family member, the Red Cross verifies the emergency information and sends a message to the Midshipmen participating in NSI. The NSI Leadership will then notify the Midshipmen of the emergency, and works directly with the Midshipmen regarding the authorization of emergency leave. To assist the Red Cross, you will be asked for:
-The service members name, rank, social security number and unit address.
Ship 09/NROTC
3415 Sailor Dr.
Great Lakes, IL 60088-3515
-The name of the person with the emergency and the nature of the situation.
-The name and contact information for the medical authority to contact regarding the status of the emergency.
You can file a request for an emergency message by calling 877-272-7337
Again, recommend you sit tight if you can, acknowledge the call you received which is the confirmation she made it, and please don't assume that not seeing on video means anything, but as parents I understand how un-nerving this all is. As a young person I would get annoyed when my parents were reactive like this, but as a parent, I totally understand. Sorry you are going through it - good luck and keep the board posted on how this all goes.
We are in a bit of a panic. No one (out of many family and friends who analyzed all day/night) can find our daughter in the cycle 2 oath video. She called right before she turned her phone in. Extensively researched and had appropriate paperwork, physical etc. Any thoughts? I messaged the FB page coordinator/host and got the standard reply: Cannot disclose information, only if emergency.
Mom trying to stay calm over here!