For some reason, the above was also supposed to read the following: since pshaner3 asked about NROTC at VMI vs a state college, I would echo what others said above regarding the VMI Corps of Cadets and size of the school. First, size—VMI is a small military college and you will be immersed in a strenuous military program from day 1. You will know your brother rats well and you will have already shared common experiences, challenges, etc. You will already know your MO teammates before you begin that phase of training.
Second, VMI is a Corps-only school. It’s different from any SMC in this regard. The NROTC-MO training will be secondary to what you will experience “on the hill” or back in barracks. Perhaps the biggest difference will be the 24/7 military life at VMI vs a state college. You will have bonded with your ROTC teammates through the VMI experience well before the ROTC training. Because of this, I have noticed that VMI grads are extremely close knit and definitely look out for each other... for life.
Hope that helps and sorry for not including that in previous post; operator error, no doubt!