So I joined this "incoming freshmen parents group" at the university my son will attend this fall. Some of the posts are informative, others, like this one, cringeworthy! lol
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"QUESTION: What is the best advice for incoming parents to focus on between May and August?
ANSWER: If they haven't already done these things alone, now is the time to practice:
1. Get their own gas
2. Grocery shopping by themselves and use the reward card for that store.. and coupons!
3. How to put air in their tires
4. General car basics for very cold and snowy conditions.
5. Basic cooking skills (if applicable).
6. How to clean a bathroom properly.
7. Basic sewing skills. Buttons, rips, hemming
8. How to make their own doctor/dental appts.
9. What to do if they lock themselves out of their dorm/apt.
10. Pre-load important numbers and addresses in their phone. Doctors, Dentists, Auto repair, locksmith, pharmacy, etc.
10. Make a photocopy, front and back of everything they keep in their wallet, including gift cards. Make sure you have a copy too.
11. Have them keep a spare key/key fob somewhere safe. Maybe keep one for yourself also.
12. Creating 2 sets of passwords... one for important stuff, one for trivial, ie, social media.
13. A conversation on how to recognize if someone has drank too much and is exhibiting concerning signs. What to do and not do. And when its time to get help."
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How on earth did I ever make it not only through college but survive half of a century without my parents pretty much not showing / doing any of this with me? What happened to learning things on your own? Maybe even learning things the hard way?