A1Janitor
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A lovely post, up until this point.
May I present the flip side?
Hey there kid who has never had a parent attend any type of school or sporting event. I see you, acknowledge you, and understand and respect your home situation. Your parent or guardian is working two jobs just to keep a roof over your head and food on the table for you and your siblings. I know that you spent last month living in a motel because the heat in your trailer went out and your scumbag landlord refused to fix it. You are now in a Section 8 apartment and your whole family is so happy for this! With the new location though it is a daily struggle just for you to get to and from school because you now have to switch city bus lines twice and it takes 1.5 hours. And it was so kind of the athletic department to waive your athletic participation fee by scholarship and let you borrow a uniform and equipment so that you can participate in athletics this season. That’s what the lending locker is for! I know that your parent or guardian has to pull a double shift quite often at their minimum wage job so there is no way they can be at an event that starts at 4:30. You are thriving despite your situation and I am so proud of you! But I would never dare to judge your parent or guardian for not being present because I know how hard they need to work just for the basics. Above all, I know that there is no less love for you in your home than I provide to my own children. Only different circumstances.
It may be different where some of you live, but this is a reality for many that attend public school in our district. This is reality for more than one of my son’s teammates.
Excellent post. I agree with your position.
But in context - that isn’t what was presented by OP and that certainly wasn’t the circumstances that Therese was talking about.
But again, I agree with you in e circumstances you describe. One that my son’s friend had was not having a father and the mother moving her son out of a bad city environment to get an education. There was nothing but love and respect for this kid. Everyone chipped in to help.