OK--I'll clarify as much as I can, and this is based SOLELY on the experience of 2012, last year's plebe summer. I am not saying this is exactly how it may go for 2013, because only a rare few people know what will happen for 2013 this summer, and they're not telling!!
Two things I want to share:
1. Pack what they tell you to pack. Those are your plebe's first orders, so do as told. That is a must.
2. Expect that they will take it away. Yes. You read me right! Why do they tell them to bring stuff they will take away? Who knows. Maybe some years they let them keep it. Maybe it's a test to see if they can follow orders. Maybe it's just to make the moms feel like they are helping their plebe-to-be prepare.
They get their stuff back at the end of summer.
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My main point is NOT TO STRESS about exactly the right briefs or exactly the right socks or whatever. Pack what they tell you to pack.
And then TRUST that USNA will provide exactly what they need for Plebe Summer. They've done this before, and they know what they want the plebes to wear and when. When your plebe makes that first phone call home, they will tell you EXACTLY what they are in need of, and what NOT to send. Be prepared to get that phone call and then run to the store for things like compression shorts or extra socks or granola bars, trail mix, whatever.
My plebe is home now for intercessional leave (for another hour!) and I'm amazed that we dropped him off on I Day with a little bit of stuff (everything on the PTR list!) and the clothes on his back...and he's reached the end of the year with DOZENS of uniform pieces, socks, underwear, PE gear, shoes, cleaning supplies, ....goodness. Can't even describe all his stuff now!
NOT his former stuff. New stuff, new life. Maui1, be prepared to be surprised OFTEN. It's almost always a good shock, but it's really a whole new world you're entering!! Please don't hesitate to ask, post, pm whatever.
Get ready for a ride! Hope that helps a bit....clear as mud?