Thank you, deepdraft1, Devil Doc, kpmom2013 and KPEngineer for your help and wonderful comments. I'm very proud of my family's military heritage. I just wish I'd known enough to ask past generations questions and thought to ask my father more. Now there is no one left to ask. My generation and younger are all there is. I've been a genealogist since 1980, so I've gathered a lot of information, but there's more I wish I had. I've tried to put together info for my children, grandchildren and two little greats. Hopefully, someday they will be as proud of our family history as I am.
BTW, Devil Doc, I was born in Newport News and we lived in Norfolk before moving to California when I was five. A lot of my maternal family worked at the shipyard, including my father. One of my cousins was Comptroller there. My uncle was the head of the model department. A few of his models are in the Mariners Museum there. A wonderful place my cousins and I loved to visit when I went back to VA. each summer. I particularly loved the scrimshaw and figureheads there.