I write from the perspective a non-Aggie Dad who had two kids in the Corps. Both went to school in Northern Virginia. Neither commissioned. Both learned a great deal from their time in the Aggie Corps. Both made friends in the Corps that they are still in touch with, this after graduating 2015 and 2018 or so. Indeed our son just got back from a bachelor party last Thursday, and of the 6 folks besides the groom, 5 were Corps buddies. You will, much like any institution, find a spectrum of folks in the Corps, and you'll like some, and be less enthusiastic about others. TAMU and V-Tech are similar in that the Corps at each institution are especially visible but not significant in terms of percentage of the student body. I don't think you'll go wrong either place. V-Tech probably has better food. Hotter in College Station - that said, one of the coldest experiences of my life was a July in College Station. It was a few weeks before FOW and our son was there for a new student orientation. We stayed in a non-reg dorm (meaning one not typically used by Corp members - it was when some construction was occurring) and the air conditioning was incredible. We'd both been on "Deep Freeze" with the Scouts - we ended up sleeping in our clothes - the gauze that was masquerading as a blanket wasn't doing it. College Station continues to grow, with trips starting in the summer of 2011 until last year (back for graduation of our son-in-law when he was getting his doctorate) there was a new building every time. They just got a Costco. Both at V-Tech and TAMU you'll lead a different life than the majority of the students, but you'll be in class with them, and have an opportunity to do things with them. If your question is "can a student not from Texas survive at A&M?" the answer is yes. The stereotype of Texas has some vestiges of truth (you will see a lot of pickups) but it is more myth than reality. Look at the demographics of Houston, Dallas, Fort Worth, San Antonio, look at who is the mayor and on the city council in each of those cities. The poster above, "As for fitting in-in the Corps-everyone starts as a fish. Texan or outtastater, black, white, hispanic or Asian, rich or poor, Christian, Jewish or Hindu-eveyone starts as a fish" is spot on; at least from my perspective of a times two Corp parent. It wouldn't surprise me if it was much the same at V-Tech. Trust your heart and then take the plunge that you believe will best serve you, is the best fit for you, and then commit to the decision. There will be some tough times, no matter which you choose. There will be some "grass is greener" no matter which you choose. A co-worker of mine had moved a number of times. His family got to Texas when their son was entering high school but had lived in the DC area, and in Buffalo before that. His eldest went to TAMU, Corps, and commissioned Army, really enjoyed the experience. I wish you the very best in your adventure.