Good Morning,
I am a MIDN 4/C currently attending a large public Southern University. I am posting today to ask about some advice that I cannot seem to find an answer to within myself.
For some background: I was a recipient of a 4-year AROTC and NROTC scholarship and just attended New Student Indoctrination at Great Lakes Naval Station this past summer. I am currently studying Computer Science in my college's engineering department. I grew up in a small town, went to a small high school, and did a year of post-secondary education at a small Christian college during my senior year of high school. Essentially, I took a full college course load, lived in the dorms, and had a regular college life except that my transcript was tied to a high school.
Now, I have been preparing for my eventual military career as far back as 8th grade; i.e. sea cadets, volunteering, etc. Part of this preparation process was working as a CSO with my town's police department to get volunteering hours while getting a different perspective of a different career path (this will come into play later). For the most part, I never really had doubts about any of what I was doing. In fact, I was ecstatic to go off into the "real world" and join NROTC at a massive university. I felt like I needed this to develop myself as a person and went in with no hesitation. I even enjoyed my time at NSI despite it being a very difficult environment.
However, now that I've been at my university for a while, I can't say that I've been genuinely happy since I've come here. Now, before I get the stereotypical response of, "ROTC is meant to be hard, suck it up," I want to clarify that ROTC is not causing my problems here, it's the school itself. I have friends, I am involved on campus (two clubs, intramurals, student government), and I'm getting good grades in a very hard major, but none of it feels right to me. I know that this is typically something most freshmen go through, but it was never this bad for me at the university I was previously at. I can't exactly pinpoint what about the school makes me feel this way, but all I know is that I have been miserable for a while and I don't see much improvement happening in the future. I am currently seeing a family counselor about this and am not sure where I go from here.
Part of me really does not want to walk away from ROTC. I take extreme pride in what I do and took extreme pride in preparing for it. If I left ROTC, I would be ashamed to have walked away from a program I fought so hard to be a part of. However, the other part of me knows that how I feel is not healthy and I would be okay pursuing law/law enforcement at my old university. I think an aspect of this change of heart is my involvement with my town's police department. I get excited to work with them and I feel like I would really enjoy working in the field after college. However, if walking away from ROTC during/after my freshman year meant that I would be labeled a quitter to employers and people around me, I would re-evaluate what I need to do.
I still feel like the military is for me, but I am not sure if ROTC at my current university is.
With this issue, I have separate questions:
What are the ramifications of walking away from ROTC after your freshman year? (i.e. barred from enlistment, other commissioning programs, stain on reputation?)
If I was to leave before my contracting date, would I have to tell future employers that I dropped out of ROTC?
With this in mind, I've come to two options I could take. I could either:
A: Stay at my university, study a major I do not feel passionate about, and hope I feel happier down the line.
or
B: Leave my current university, study law or law enforcement at my previous university my Sophmore year, but walk away from ROTC.
This is honestly one of the hardest decisions I have encountered and I would appreciate some advice regarding this.
I am a MIDN 4/C currently attending a large public Southern University. I am posting today to ask about some advice that I cannot seem to find an answer to within myself.
For some background: I was a recipient of a 4-year AROTC and NROTC scholarship and just attended New Student Indoctrination at Great Lakes Naval Station this past summer. I am currently studying Computer Science in my college's engineering department. I grew up in a small town, went to a small high school, and did a year of post-secondary education at a small Christian college during my senior year of high school. Essentially, I took a full college course load, lived in the dorms, and had a regular college life except that my transcript was tied to a high school.
Now, I have been preparing for my eventual military career as far back as 8th grade; i.e. sea cadets, volunteering, etc. Part of this preparation process was working as a CSO with my town's police department to get volunteering hours while getting a different perspective of a different career path (this will come into play later). For the most part, I never really had doubts about any of what I was doing. In fact, I was ecstatic to go off into the "real world" and join NROTC at a massive university. I felt like I needed this to develop myself as a person and went in with no hesitation. I even enjoyed my time at NSI despite it being a very difficult environment.
However, now that I've been at my university for a while, I can't say that I've been genuinely happy since I've come here. Now, before I get the stereotypical response of, "ROTC is meant to be hard, suck it up," I want to clarify that ROTC is not causing my problems here, it's the school itself. I have friends, I am involved on campus (two clubs, intramurals, student government), and I'm getting good grades in a very hard major, but none of it feels right to me. I know that this is typically something most freshmen go through, but it was never this bad for me at the university I was previously at. I can't exactly pinpoint what about the school makes me feel this way, but all I know is that I have been miserable for a while and I don't see much improvement happening in the future. I am currently seeing a family counselor about this and am not sure where I go from here.
Part of me really does not want to walk away from ROTC. I take extreme pride in what I do and took extreme pride in preparing for it. If I left ROTC, I would be ashamed to have walked away from a program I fought so hard to be a part of. However, the other part of me knows that how I feel is not healthy and I would be okay pursuing law/law enforcement at my old university. I think an aspect of this change of heart is my involvement with my town's police department. I get excited to work with them and I feel like I would really enjoy working in the field after college. However, if walking away from ROTC during/after my freshman year meant that I would be labeled a quitter to employers and people around me, I would re-evaluate what I need to do.
I still feel like the military is for me, but I am not sure if ROTC at my current university is.
With this issue, I have separate questions:
What are the ramifications of walking away from ROTC after your freshman year? (i.e. barred from enlistment, other commissioning programs, stain on reputation?)
If I was to leave before my contracting date, would I have to tell future employers that I dropped out of ROTC?
With this in mind, I've come to two options I could take. I could either:
A: Stay at my university, study a major I do not feel passionate about, and hope I feel happier down the line.
or
B: Leave my current university, study law or law enforcement at my previous university my Sophmore year, but walk away from ROTC.
This is honestly one of the hardest decisions I have encountered and I would appreciate some advice regarding this.
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