OK, since we’ve hit upon the “how to bring attention to yourself during I-day and the rest of BCT” discussion” which starts every year about this time (and reaches a frenzy come April / May), please allow me to give my $0.02 on the subject.
(Granted, this is from a guy who 1) isn’t a freshmen like the OP asked for, and 2) did not attend the AFA.)
When it comes to “getting attention” at I-day and BCT, don’t be “THAT guy (or gal)”, and instead strive to be “THE guy (or gal)”.
What’s the difference? THAT guy (or gal) is the person who draws attention to him/her self for all the wrong reasons. Typical reasons:
1) Gets off the bus wearing clothes that are either so stupid (i.e. a shirt that says, “I’m here to kick butt and chew bubble-gum, and I’m all out of bubble-gum!”, or “Operation Code Pink Rally for Peace: Aug 2005”), or so arrogant (i.e. a shirt that has a military logo on it or says “Future Weapons School Grad” on it) the cadre quickly commences an attitude adjustment.
2) Has an attitude of “I was the Valedictorian at my HS, All-state QB, Westinghouse Finalist, and Homecoming King combined. My poop doesn’t stink, and I’ll quickly point that fact to you and the rest of the other cadets (who I think are below me)”, or “My lawyer says you can’t do this to me.”
3) Looks out only for #1 and not the team. Finishes the run first, stands off to the side to stretch afterwards. Never volunteers for anything, because he would rather let his fellow cadets screw it up and take the fall (or worse yet, volunteers for EVERYTHING because he / she wants to show the cadre they ARE #1). Refuses to come out from “under the radar” for anything, even if it lets a team-mate down.
4) Doesn’t LISTEN. We ALL make mistakes, and the cadre expects that. They also expect you to LISTEN and LEARN from your mistakes. If you are un-teachable, you are not qualified to lead. Even worse if the root cause is simply that you don’t LISTEN.
5) Gives up at the slightest challenge. Again, we ALL fail and make mistakes sometimes. Pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and keep going. THAT is what earns you respect from the Cadre.
6) Gets down on their team-mates instead of being the support system for your team-mates. Your team-mates will make mistakes as well. Don’t be the one who yells at them to get their act together, be the one who encourages them to improve. Better yet, be the one who SHOWS them how to improve or carries them across the finish line.
So, what is THE guy (or gal) like?
1) I think I mentioned “team” a few times. Be a team player; be the first to crack a joke to get your team-mates spirits up, the first to go back and run with a team-mate who is lagging, the first to hug your team-mate when they do something good, and the first to pat your team-mate on the back and say “get ‘em next time” when they screw up.
2) If you and your team-mates want to do something together to build team spirit, even if you know it will get you all in trouble for a little while (like everyone showing up in Hawaiian shirts), do it and accept the consequences. But do it as a team, or don’t do it at all. And don’t do something illegal or against the rules, just something “out of the ordinary”.
3) Be the one who listens to your team-mates when they are down and gives them that little extra TLC to lift their spirits. Share a cookie, if you have one.
4) Volunteer once in a while. Show them your willing to lead because you see it as an opportunity to learn the correct way to lead.
5) Be a friend besides a team-mate.
6) Did I mention you should be a team-player?
Well, those are just some quick thoughts. My last thought is: “You set a dream / goal for yourself. No one pushed you into this situation (hopefully). BCT and I-day are temporary obstacles to that goal. Granted, they may stink RIGHT NOW, but isn’t your goal worth it? I knew EVERYDAY I was wearing the uniform was worth it to me, even the bad ones. Just see these obstacles today as something that will make achieving your goal worth it all the more…