I have posted this earlier , but at that time it was something of a pipe dream. Now we really have to decide. It will be extremely difficult to make two trips to Connecticut this year . DS says that he would rather see us at parents weekend. My feelings are that there will be four parents weekends, but only 1 R Day . Of course, if at all possible, we would attend both . There are other considerations ( siblings out of school in June , can I get vacation time during the busy June period , etc. ). Any thoughts ,comments , suggestions would be appreciated .