RedBull,
I applaud you for laying it all out there and soliciting advice on whether this is the right decision for you. In my day, candidates like you (myself included) with similar reservations, fears, doubts, etc. didn't have the benefit of the wide net that this forum casts, so the pool of advice was much smaller. Ironically, in some ways, that may have been a good thing. Advice is great, but as it relates to a decision like this, it can sometimes muddy the waters, create further doubts, and add even more confusion than was already there. That said, I would echo what several have wisely counseled, that is to weigh some of the points that others offer for consideration, but it is ultimately your decision. Take solice in knowing that many, maybe hundreds of your potential classmates are having the very same doubts and concerns. The process is far from perfect, and it sometimes ends up not being a great fit for some who are offered an appointment. But dealing with the very challenges you are concerned about is part of the experience, moreso for some than others. Successfully doing so results in growth, and to some extent "growing up." This is true at an SA or any other first "out of the nest" experience. None who dispense advice know you or your situation better than you do (including Spud, who IMO was over the top in his post, one I would actually dismiss), so again you will make the call. But know that you are not alone.
Best of luck,
USNA 85
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