I really was not intending on appearing rude. Im appreciative of the responses I have received, but I was just looking for a solid answer. Advice from folks who have done it, or who's kids have although useful, may not always be factual. I was simply wondering if there was any facts associated with a commonly accepted notion. Simply because everyone has done and continues to do it one way, does not mean that it is the end all. Im not trying to argue, but rather get the answer to my question.
I appreciate it, thats all I was asking for. Obviously delaying wouldnt be advisable, but I was just wondering.. Thank you.