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NathanaelTippen

NathanaelTippen

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My girlfriend keeps talking about our wedding, any advice???
I want to get married but when shuold I propose?
 
NathanaelTippen said:
My girlfriend keeps talking about our wedding, any advice???
I want to get married but when shuold I propose?
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Aren’t you in 11th grade? In my opinion there is no need to be discussing marriage.

Also, even though this is the Off Topic section, the purpose of this site is to help candidates and parents of candidates who are working towards commissioning as an officer is the US military services. I’m not sure it is the best place to be asking these questions.

Stealth_81
 
You are in high school this shouldn’t even be on your radar to be honest. If the relationship is meant to be then it will survive you enlisting, completing boot camp and MOS school and getting your feet wet in the fleet. The amount of young Marines who marry their high school sweethearts and end up divorced by the time they can drink is way too high. I would say 75% of those marriages end in divorce and with the the Marine paying child support. Just don’t.
 
Marry when you both have your own feet under your own self, meaning it's not about money, and both have gone out and built a bit of a life independent of the other. Keep dating, but get through school and boot camp, get jobs, get your own apartments, whatever. But once you've established other options and you have something to lose, see if you feel the same way. You might, and at that point you'll be older and more mature and your odds will be better, but you might not and that's good to know as well.
 
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