Just a few curiosity questions.
1. Family member can mean anything from cousin to sibling. Which is it, because that may have an impact on the decision.
2. How is it that they didn't know already the date?
Hornetguy is someone I would PM, because I know for a fact he was eligible to attend a function in August, not a wedding, but a significant event. I believe he was a C2C.
I am not trying to be Debbie Downer, but the reality is in ADAF life they will miss big family occasions. They will be missed by the family, but if they go they will also have the stress of keeping up with academics. Goes back to my first question, family member? Is it really that important they are there for Aunt Joan's wedding, or cousin Tim's? Sister Sarah I get.