I would like to just congratulate all the kids who earned nominations, whether it be 1 or 5--- and know the process isn't going to change because we may or may not have an opinion about it. I for one am glad my kid applied for all sources. He and we, were humbled by the nominations he received. And we are in a state where Senators communicate. Am I relieved he has an appointment to USNA, absolutely.
The most important thing I have taken away from all of the forum threads I have read, is this: if it is outside of your control, let it go. I am not good at it, but I am trying. And when my kid has angst, I am reminding him of it that practice; we actually discussed it last night regarding a school policy he was frustrated with that is out of his control and sphere of influence.
Why stress or have angst over something that is out of your control or sphere of influence???? Some wise person said stressing about something is like paying interest on something you haven't bought yet (or something close to that). Bravo Zulu to all who are reaping the fruits of their labor.