"But what people fail to understand is that those students have zero impact on the Corps of Cadets program that is more or less a mirror image of VMI. My Cadet doesn't know any online students and I think talks to maybe one grad student."
I for one think that the two schools are the most similar of the SMC's. The above statement however does make me feel that the Citadel is becoming less similar to VMI and moving closer to Virginia Tech or A&M. How many in the Corps of Cadets at either VA Tech or A&M know the athletes that they cheer for on Saturday or any other sport? If anything this just emphasizes that VMI needs to adapt.
I know that VMI is considering alternatives for cadets who have spent 4 years in the Corps. An idea being discussed is allowing those cadets to live off post, attend classes not in uniform (but something like Khakis and Polo shirts), continue to play sports with remaining years of eligibility. Will it happen? Who knows, but I would not be opposed to it. My only caveat is that this should apply to ALL cadets, not just athletes.
I couldn't disagree more regarding The Citadel becoming more like Virginia Tech or Texas A&M. Think about it. Both of those schools are HUGE state universities with tens of thousands of regular undergraduates, plus a Corps of Cadets of roughly 2,000-2,500 housed in an insular fashion with a small, defined section of a HUGE campus. The Citadel, on the other hand, is a small campus COMPLETELY set up as a military school with barracks style housing. All five battalions (dorms) on campus house the Corps of Cadets, which numbers roughly 2,400 (probably a bit higher at the beginning of each fall semester, before Knobs start quitting...). If you visit The Citadel campus on any given day, the only students you are going to see are Cadets in uniform. There are NO regular (non-military) undergrads on campus, and NO housing for them. There may be a few grad students floating around (I honestly don't know when/where their classes are held), but the number would be quite small I doubt you'd really notice. Yes, there are probably 1,000-1,500 online undergrad students, but NONE of those kids are attending classes on campus. And honestly, except for those who are members of a Citadel sports team and need to be local for practices/games, most are probably not even in Charleston. I think if you visited The Citadel and asked any Cadet if they felt like they were more like VMI or more like Texas A&M, you wouldn't get a single Cadet to say A&M. At A&M, you have all the luxuries of regular college life right around the corner. 1,000 places to eat. Frat parties. Big-time college athletic events. Major concerts coming to campus. None of that exists at The Citadel. It's a very spartan life day to day in the barracks, as the Cadets will be more than happy to tell you all about. DS has repeated water damage and mold issues in his barracks, which was built in 1942. Much of the living conditions at The Citadel would NEVER fly at a regular college. Parents and students would be up in arms. I'd say the biggest difference between Cadet life at The Citadel and VMI boils down to the fact that at The Citadel, they get Charleston, S.C., to enjoy during leave, while VMI Cadets get Lexington, Va. THAT, I will grant you, is a big difference.
Regarding your last point, I am sure "changes" are coming at both schools, and many will not be well received by alumni. I suppose it's just the nature of the beast. Currently, if you are a member of the Corps of Cadets at The Citadel, you MUST complete three years (six semesters) in the barracks. If you start as a freshman, you can become a day student for senior year, live off campus and attend classes. I am honestly not sure how many students do this, but I don't think it is a large number. As far as I can tell, most of the seniors still live in the barracks. This would make sense, considering many are rank holders who serve as company commanders, XOs, academic officers, etc.