So basically why I am not applying to ROTC and applying for the Academies is because first, the difference in benefits.
From what I know the benefits the ROTC and the level of training it offers is just completely lacking when compared to an Academies teachings.
Thus i'd outweigh going to a regular top school instead of inlisting for a lackluster army program (just comparing to Academy, I'm not trying to completely downplay the ROTC program, which is great.)
I believe that going to a regular school wouldn't allow me to learn and go throught the learning opportunities that the Academies could offer me.
Therefore, I believe that a service academy would be fitting for my goal in life.
So, I was in the IB curriculum (got my diploma July 2013) and I would really encourage you to embrace the TOK concept of "knowledge by experience".
Service academies, and the military in general, take a very complex approach to knowledge by experience in that they train their enlisted, cadets, soldiers, etc... with a slight "knowledge by authority" approach too.
That being said, you really need to understand what the military is about. The service academies are very prestigious institutions, but are not like other prestigious civilian schools. Not considering ROTC because of rumors of "lack of preparation" means you don't REALLY understand what a service commitment is.
Sophomore year I had no idea what I wanted to do and I just began exploring my option of a service academy, I have been in your shoes where I was hoping to get into a service academy and wasn't really considering other options (ROTC, OTS) because I was enamored with the almighty "Big three" service academies. Please PLEASE debate with yourself more because you're going to get a MASSIVE wake up call at BCT and.. through the next four years at the academy...
You really need to sit down and think if this is what you want to do for not just a college... but for a career. It's A LOT longer than 4 years. You are a competitive candidate, but the military has their ever-changing demands, so nothing is a guarantee. USMA has actually started taking out LOA's (letter of assurances) and have been giving triple q'd candidates LOE's (letter of encouragements) to make the message clear that nothing is guaranteed.
Also, I've met some exceptional officers that went through ROTC programs. Please do not degrade all ROTC programs because every school is different and every program is different. At the end of the day, everyone is an officer in the US military and that should be your main goal.
What I'm trying to say is: You don't know everything now and you never will know all the answers to life. You will constantly be overcoming challenges BY YOURSELF and learning through KNOWLEDGE BY EXPERIENCE. Look long and hard into the military career route. Please do not go into this half-hearted because you will have a long ride ahead of you.