I am about 8 days late on this post...but it's been a while since I've interacted on this site (I was a freshman at that time asking the same questions...).
I graduated just last May, Class of 2017. As a new 2nd LT, I can say...truly and honestly, that the Academy prepared me for a very well and balanced(ish) life outside of it. I am currently stationed in Ellsworth AFB, SD...which was NO WHERE in my dream sheet. I was bummed, cried...got over it...and I am here, enjoying the beautiful Rapid City and all that comes with this place.
As a cadet, I wasn't the best...but I also wasn't the worst. There were trying times for me...I had been put on Academic probation for a couple of mid-semesters and also was on Honor Probation for 6 months. And with that, I learned the absolute lesson of character and integrity (buzzword...sorry). It's real. They try to shape you to become an officer because you are expected to be the bigger person in ANY situation you are thrown in...including being a fresh 2nd LT. I came to USAFA because I got recruited for a sport and I wanted to "do something challenging and different". Those words still hold true today. I did want to do something different, and this is definitely something very different. But it created a more mature version of myself at my age...I'm 22 and I am currently a supervisor for 36+ airmen here. I've learned critical thinking skills, how to handle conflicts and situations I never would want to put myself in, and I've also met the absolute BEST friends of my life..who are now going to be pilots
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You're going to be put in very uncomfortable situations...you have to know what to do about it. You'll meet your future bffs...and also your ex-bffs. People leave and grow apart...but you'll know who your true friends are. Explore outside of your comfort zone...I didn't and I wish I had done more outside of my comfort zone...which was my sport and my room (lol). School is going to suck, especially the first two years...sophomore year is academically the hardest. Be prepared, don't put yourself in a position which might get you in trouble. I did...and I lost a lot because of something that I had absolute control of...I just took the easy way out. Theres a lot of cheating scandals/rings that happen at the Academy...don't get sucked into that. Enjoy USAFA and all it has to offer...take advantage of it! Because I wouldn't be where I am (leading 36+ airmen the first day I reported in hahahaha). I never asked questions in high school, but you have to at the Academy and even out here in the Operational AF...it gets you far. You HAVE to be proactive.
The biggest thing I realized was that this place really helps with your grit. Here is me...high school athlete, getting things I asked from my parents, not having to worry about my self...just me and my sport. Now, here is C1C Me. Having gone through probations, balancing play and work (time management is your friend or your enemy...up to you to determine that), lots of downs more than ups, looking up at the stands during graduation. I wish I could replay that day...because you go through so much with the 1000+ classmates. We all go through the same thing...each handled differently, but our goal is the same.
Be advised...you need to be the one that wants to come here...I was 50/50 but I stuck with it because the goal was to graduate (and I did). No parent, teacher, sister, brother, family member will truly know if you want to come here or not. Only you...of course, it's worth the gruesome 4 years.
If you have any questions, feel free to contact me or message me. USAFA and I...we have a love/hate relationship. I do miss it though...the people at least
. It was the best decision I've ever made for my life. But first, enjoy high school...you have to grow up a lot faster as an Academy cadet than you do as a civilian in college.