Tomboysuze
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My DS is just completing his second month of ROTC at a very competitive battalion that was often ranked as no 1 in the Country - when they used to rank them. He is doing very well and his mentor told him he is "high speed" and "impressive." He has dreamed of being in the Army since he was five, but after two months, he just does not like many aspects of ROTC and is deciding to get out. He is also in the Honors College at his school - so he has very little time to make friends and have a social life. His battalion is VERY TIME CONSUMING as their standards are over and above what most ROTC programs require. Since he hasn't signed a contract, that's not a problem - but we are encouraging him to stick it out for his Freshman year because he's in a transitional stage. Just looking for some opinions here: Is this a standard reaction for most 18 yr olds? College is a huge transition anyway - and he is lonely because of the time commitment. FYI - in high school he had lots of close friends - both male and female - so he's not shy. He just doesn't have time to connect with other students. This past weekend was homecoming but instead of being able attend his first freshman homecoming, he was in the woods on an overnight field training. Normally, he'd like that kind of thing - but PT five days a week and two ROTC classes a week on top of his honors classes burning him out quickly. Advice? Thanks!
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