Had to go back in emails to give you a better time frame answer. Medical exam was first week in November, about a week and a half after DD got an email about a form that was send without signature, she resent within hours. Then portal said completed but waiting for review, “nothing needed from you right now” (pulling this out of my memory and what DD told me)
DD was patient, but Monday after thanksgiving, admissions emailed asking why the medical was taking so long (!!) it was during school hours so obviously my DD wanted to take care of it immediately and asked my dh to call the CIV number, they were extremely helpful and found out that “the provider” has sent one of the forms with a simple numeric mistake, and DoDMETS was waiting for the provider to send the correction for almost 2 weeks!! called the doctors office to inquire about it and within an hour it was received by the reviewing authority. Less than a week after that she was informed that medical paperwork was send for waiver consideration, we knew this so even before the medical she gather and took to the examination appointment all pertinent information, then they only requested prescription records after 13 birthday, that took 24 hours to get and send. My DD sent every time an email confirming that whatever she was sending was received
The week of December 20 waiver was granted, DD got offer of appointment in her portal the morning of December 24, accepted immediately.
With this I’m not hoping for your kid to be obsessing over this, but it definitely helps to be vigilant. Good luck !