falconchic88
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True, NHS isn't just an "honor" or "title" It is a leadership group that is very active during the school year in school and community service projects.
Speaking to the OPs question, like everyone has said, focus on the first hurdle, because that will make getting over the next ones that much easier. They are all stepping stones.
My DH was top graduate in his UPT class. But he didn't set out with the goal of graduating number 1. He actually made a similar comment as OP during his JR year of high school. His goal was to fly fighters off of aircraft carriers in the Navy. Well, he didn't get into USNA, or USAFA out of high school. His test scores weren't high enough. He was offered a USAFA prep school spot and took it. He ended up being a top graduate from his prep school class and entered USAFA.
Still focused on his dream, he knew he could cross commission into the Navy. What he didn't count on was falling in love and proposing to a fellow squadron mate (me). Suddenly cross commissioning into the Navy wasn't at the top of his priority list anymore. Join Spouse assignment became his new goal. So, he was probably the only one in our class to request UPT in Del Rio TX, because it was the only UPT base that had a personnel officer slot for me.
Once at UPT, his goal was to graduate, not finish first. He struggled in T37s, at first, but chair flew and chair flew and chair flew. And I helped him study and study and study the bold face. Before he even realized it, he was graduating #1 in his class. And guess what? There was fighter to Langley in his drop. Just waiting for him to pick it. (He grew up in Northern Virginia so this was a dream assignment). He didn't pick it. He picked a C21 to Randolph because that was the best chance we had of getting a join spouse assignment. Ironically, little did we know that before we were given the join spouse to Del Rio, the Personnel Chief only agreed to take me if they FAIPed (First Assignment Instructor Pilot) DH so we would both stay at Del Rio for a while. He foiled that when he finished first and had his pick of the drop.Instead we ended up at Randolph together within a few months after his UPT graduation.
SO, someone who didn't finish #1 in the class ended up with the fighter. The point of all this is to re-enforce what others have said, you never know where the stepping stones will take you, and how much your goals will shift along the way.
Speaking to the OPs question, like everyone has said, focus on the first hurdle, because that will make getting over the next ones that much easier. They are all stepping stones.
My DH was top graduate in his UPT class. But he didn't set out with the goal of graduating number 1. He actually made a similar comment as OP during his JR year of high school. His goal was to fly fighters off of aircraft carriers in the Navy. Well, he didn't get into USNA, or USAFA out of high school. His test scores weren't high enough. He was offered a USAFA prep school spot and took it. He ended up being a top graduate from his prep school class and entered USAFA.
Still focused on his dream, he knew he could cross commission into the Navy. What he didn't count on was falling in love and proposing to a fellow squadron mate (me). Suddenly cross commissioning into the Navy wasn't at the top of his priority list anymore. Join Spouse assignment became his new goal. So, he was probably the only one in our class to request UPT in Del Rio TX, because it was the only UPT base that had a personnel officer slot for me.
Once at UPT, his goal was to graduate, not finish first. He struggled in T37s, at first, but chair flew and chair flew and chair flew. And I helped him study and study and study the bold face. Before he even realized it, he was graduating #1 in his class. And guess what? There was fighter to Langley in his drop. Just waiting for him to pick it. (He grew up in Northern Virginia so this was a dream assignment). He didn't pick it. He picked a C21 to Randolph because that was the best chance we had of getting a join spouse assignment. Ironically, little did we know that before we were given the join spouse to Del Rio, the Personnel Chief only agreed to take me if they FAIPed (First Assignment Instructor Pilot) DH so we would both stay at Del Rio for a while. He foiled that when he finished first and had his pick of the drop.Instead we ended up at Randolph together within a few months after his UPT graduation.
SO, someone who didn't finish #1 in the class ended up with the fighter. The point of all this is to re-enforce what others have said, you never know where the stepping stones will take you, and how much your goals will shift along the way.