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And I would bet the majority of USNA appointees didn’t either.I’d put good money that none of the “quitters” spent more than 3 days in a wrestling room!
And I would bet the majority of USNA appointees didn’t either.I’d put good money that none of the “quitters” spent more than 3 days in a wrestling room!
I hope the parents ARE discussing this with their kids. There's a lot of lessons in it:Imagine how the kids who were deemed fully qualified, put on the USNA waitlist, twe, and deemed unqualified for naps feel.
A parent complaining about another kid taking a spot that could have been used for someone else, who was missing something in their resume for USNA, to naps.
It is a complete waste of time. I hope the parents aren’t discussing this with their kids. Instead, I hope they are focusing on what is needed to get over the hurdle.
It's absurd to talk about some of the reasons why kids are quitting?Patently absurd to write this on a public forum.
Non-sequitur. (We were talking about what a quitter "costs" others whose spot they took.)A phone call to admissions and BGO would end the confusion. And the applicant should address the shortcomings with vigor if they want to reapply.
I hope the parents ARE discussing this with their kids. There's a lot of lessons in it:
- Life isn't fair
- Sometimes the best person is not picked for the job
- People will throw opportunities away all the time
- There are consequences for actions
- In life, there are doers and quitters
- Some people do not take an oath seriously
Etc, etc.
It's hard to argue in favor of a quitter being the best person for the job.Life lessons indeed.
Hell of an assumption to say the best person wasn’t picked. Admissions might say the best people were selected, even with the risk of them separating early.
Focus on what was missing for USNA appointment.
Calling them fat and lazy are assumptions that are grossly unfair and patently absurd.It's absurd to talk about some of the reasons why kids are quitting?
Why is that absurd?
Non-sequitur. (We were talking about what a quitter "costs" others whose spot they took.)
My son has already, with what he has overcome and accomplished, grown into a better man than me. Guess that’s the whole point…my entire goal as a dad since 2005.I hope the parents ARE discussing this with their kids. There's a lot of lessons in it:
- Life isn't fair
- Sometimes the best person is not picked for the job
- People will throw opportunities away all the time
- There are consequences for actions
- In life, there are doers and quitters
- Some people do not take an oath seriously
Etc, etc.
I never called them lazy.Calling them fat and lazy are assumptions that are grossly unfair and patently absurd.
You said “Not to mention the stress, heartache, wondering what they don't have that others do, etc.” The applicants should sulk momentarily and then rebuild. If they want to rebuild, they will find the weakness in their applications and improve. Admissions and BGOs are the starting point.
Focusing on decisions beyond their control is useless.
No one is complaining about the team being picked by the coaches, to use your example.If no one quit naps the following classes would be smaller. They are the current size because of the attrition, And the parents of the kids who did not get accepted with smaller classes would still be complaining about an unfair system.
It’s the same at any competitive level where kids get cut , where kids get denied a spot——parents will complain. More so than the kids
Every year very large college football teams are picked with the knowledge that some of those that made the squad will quit, some will come up short, and some will get hurt, and some .It’s the nature of tough competition.No one is complaining about the team being picked by the coaches, to use your example.
Everybody tries out, the coaches pick the players, the team is set and the season starts. Fine and good.
Where the complaint comes is once the team is picked by the coaches and the season starts, one of the players decides they don’t like the practices, the running, the schedule, etc and they decide they don’t want be on the team anymore and quits.
See the difference?
Wow! My DS would’ve done anything for a sliver of a chance .. crazy how they “select the puzzle pieces” .. he’s a varsity athlete, graduated with an AA, has his ducks in a row enough to be awarded an NROTC scholarship first round .. ACT scores a lil low but has pre calculus & physics under his belt. Currently at NSI-3 graduating next Monday … if only… totally get it, he can re-apply, all roads lead to commissioning .. but a dream is a dream. Sorry, first time humble bragging .. but this kid wants it has poured the foundation since he was a child. Grrrrr ..Agreed.
Here’s another punch in the gut: A NAPSter quit on the first day and two more are leaving tomorrow.
It’s a disgrace that these kids - quitters - took spots from others who really wanted it…
I know, it's awful to read about all these quitters.Wow! My DS would’ve done anything for a sliver of a chance .. crazy how they “select the puzzle pieces” .. he’s a varsity athlete, graduated with an AA, has his ducks in a row enough to be awarded an NROTC scholarship first round .. ACT scores a lil low but has pre calculus & physics under his belt. Currently at NSI-3 graduating next Monday … if only… totally get it, he can re-apply, all roads lead to commissioning .. but a dream is a dream. Sorry, first time humble bragging .. but this kid wants it has poured the foundation since he was a child. Grrrrr ..
Yes, I read the above comments, I know he is not a quitter… watched this kid play varsity football (both sides of the ball) against kids twice his size. Never once tapped out of the game .. even after being pummeled, elected to attend a college prep school / take dual credits when he could’ve taken the easy (covid zoom) school road. Spent two weeks the last two summers at Camp Pendleton preparing with the Marines .. WHY, so he can/will succeed and not quit !!!
VMI gets my kid … % no doubt he will live out his dream as a Naval Aviator!! Just irks me he had to be waitlisted until mid June .. to only hear others quit.
I think you are conflating the institution / coaches picking the team with the players who once on the team, decide to quit.Every year very large college football teams are picked with the knowledge that some of those that made the squad will quit, some will come up short, and some will get hurt, and some .It’s the nature of tough competition.
The system works. And those that were picked were picked for a reason.
Probably time to end this disagreement. We aren’t going to change any minds … I do find your lack of compassion and public display untoward.I think you are conflating the institution / coaches picking the team with the players who once on the team, decide to quit.
Of course the institution knows there will attrition. Again, it's baked into the cake. I am talking about THE PLAYERS themselves, who joined the team, thereby taking a spot from someone else, only to quit once on the team and the season started.
See the difference???