I agree with LITS, talk to your det. I know several AFROTC non-scholarship female cadets that were able to remain, but I believe the reason why came down to custodial issues. Their parents were given guardianship. Plus, they were 6 -9 months out from commissioning.
I know also several AFA grads that consulted with an attorney and didn't have an issue. It cost them money, but here is what they did:
Your parents would request grandparental rights, and would agree to pay X amount in child support. They would be on the financial hook, and it gives you the opportunity to see your child in their home.
Their(your) name was never place on the birth certificate until they commissioned. The mother was okay with it because the main concern is financial and health care.
Upon commissioning and the birth certificate change, the child was enrolled in DEERS as a military dependent. This is the health insurance coverage.
JMPO, and 0.019864 cents, but try to discuss this with her, and explain in the long run for your child's sake this is a great financial option for her because if she places your name on the certificate, you will most likely be dis-enrolled. How will you pay for child support?
~~~~ Your parents may say your stipend is now her child support. Pay it to us, and we pay it to her.
I do believe it is very clear cut regarding dependents on scholarship, and the answer I believe is the scholarship will be revoked. Doesn't mean dis-enrollment per se, just means no money.
Another reason to talk to attorney that specializes in family law. 2K bucks to do the paperwork so she feels confident from a financial view, is worth it when it comes to the cost of the scholarship.
Again, may be wrong, but I believe you will lose the scholarship if your named on the birth certificate.