Hello everyone. I've been a lurker here for quite some time, with the exception of a post I made in the Air Force forum concerning some problems I had with grades. Thank you all for being a treasure trove of information for me.
Before I start, I just want to state that I truly love this country and want only the best for it and its people; I'm committed to serving in the military and would do all I could to uphold my oath regardless of my (irrelevant) personal politics.
I probably won't be very popular for starting this thread, and I sincerely apologize if anyone here takes offense to it, but I have to say there have been a few things that have troubled me about our military's activities in the Middle East. I've discussed this with my friends, but I feel as though current military personnel would have a very unique and valuable perspective on it.
I fear that our use of drone strikes is counter productive. It seems as though almost every day we read stories in the news about tens of civilians being killed--women and children included. While I am sure they have the best of intentions, drone operators obviously aren't perfect and occasionally horror stories come out; weddings that turn into funerals, schools reduced to rubble, little kids being bombed.
I understand that we are at war, and war is often inherently terrible. But I don't think that the war on terror is one that can be won solely through the use of the military (not that it should not play a role). I fear that when we conduct these strikes, particularly in such a non-transparent manner, we run the risk of radicalizing those who might otherwise have been neutral towards us. I fear that, when we act to recklessly in what we perceive to be our interests, we do irreparable damage to the image of our country. America has inspired the world for over two hundred years; our culture is present and dominant in almost every country and our military helps protect countries around the world--many of which would otherwise be in perilous positions. Maybe I'm being naïve for saying this (don't hesitate to tell me if I am) but when little kids around the world think about America, I want them to think about NASA and Disney and the country that fought Nazism and Communism. I don't want them to think of America as a country that "shoots first and asks questions later" (to be somewhat crude).
I understand that drones are very useful tools of war--I just feel that the way we are currently using them is highly flawed.
I'm not really a hippie; I truly want to believe that we are doing the right thing to protect this country and our allies from terrorism. Please let me know what you all think; I'm only 18 and I certainly don't have all the answers!
Additionally, here is an article that got me thinking:
(I'm not allowed to post links, but it's an article from the Guardian written by Rafiq ur Rehman.)
Before I start, I just want to state that I truly love this country and want only the best for it and its people; I'm committed to serving in the military and would do all I could to uphold my oath regardless of my (irrelevant) personal politics.
I probably won't be very popular for starting this thread, and I sincerely apologize if anyone here takes offense to it, but I have to say there have been a few things that have troubled me about our military's activities in the Middle East. I've discussed this with my friends, but I feel as though current military personnel would have a very unique and valuable perspective on it.
I fear that our use of drone strikes is counter productive. It seems as though almost every day we read stories in the news about tens of civilians being killed--women and children included. While I am sure they have the best of intentions, drone operators obviously aren't perfect and occasionally horror stories come out; weddings that turn into funerals, schools reduced to rubble, little kids being bombed.
I understand that we are at war, and war is often inherently terrible. But I don't think that the war on terror is one that can be won solely through the use of the military (not that it should not play a role). I fear that when we conduct these strikes, particularly in such a non-transparent manner, we run the risk of radicalizing those who might otherwise have been neutral towards us. I fear that, when we act to recklessly in what we perceive to be our interests, we do irreparable damage to the image of our country. America has inspired the world for over two hundred years; our culture is present and dominant in almost every country and our military helps protect countries around the world--many of which would otherwise be in perilous positions. Maybe I'm being naïve for saying this (don't hesitate to tell me if I am) but when little kids around the world think about America, I want them to think about NASA and Disney and the country that fought Nazism and Communism. I don't want them to think of America as a country that "shoots first and asks questions later" (to be somewhat crude).
I understand that drones are very useful tools of war--I just feel that the way we are currently using them is highly flawed.
I'm not really a hippie; I truly want to believe that we are doing the right thing to protect this country and our allies from terrorism. Please let me know what you all think; I'm only 18 and I certainly don't have all the answers!
Additionally, here is an article that got me thinking:
(I'm not allowed to post links, but it's an article from the Guardian written by Rafiq ur Rehman.)
The last time I saw my mother, Momina Bibi, was the evening before Eid al-Adha. She was preparing my children's clothing and showing them how to make sewaiyaan, a traditional sweet made of milk. She always used to say: the joy of Eid is the excitement it brings to the children.
Last year, she never had that experience. The next day, 24 October 2012, she was dead, killed by a US drone that rained fire down upon her as she tended her garden.
Nobody has ever told me why my mother was targeted that day. The media reported that the attack was on a car, but there is no road alongside my mother's house. Several reported the attack was on a house. But the missiles hit a nearby field, not a house. All reported that five militants were killed. Only one person was killed – a 67-year-old grandmother of nine.
My three children – 13-year-old Zubair, nine-year-old Nabila and five-year-old Asma – were playing nearby when their grandmother was killed. All of them were injured and rushed to hospitals. Were these children the "militants" the news reports spoke of? Or perhaps, it was my brother's children? They, too, were there. They are aged three, seven, 12, 14, 15 and 17 years old. The eldest four had just returned from a day at school, not long before the missile struck.
But the United States and its citizens probably do not know this. No one ever asked us who was killed or injured that day. Not the United States or my own government. Nobody has come to investigate nor has anyone been held accountable. Quite simply, nobody seems to care.
I care, though. And so does my family and my community. We want to understand why a 67-year-old grandmother posed a threat to one of the most powerful countries in the world. We want to understand how nine children, some playing in the field, some just returned from school, could possibly have threatened the safety of those living a continent and an ocean away.
Most importantly, we want to understand why President Obama, when asked whom drones are killing, says they are killing terrorists. My mother was not a terrorist. My children are not terrorists. Nobody in our family is a terrorist.
My mother was a midwife, the only midwife in our village. She delivered hundreds of babies in our community. Now families have no one to help them.
And my father? He is a retired school principal. He spent his life educating children, something that my community needs far more than bombs. Bombs create only hatred in the hearts of people. And that hatred and anger breeds more terrorism. But education – education can help a country prosper.
I, too, am a teacher. I was teaching in my local primary school on the day my mother was killed. I came home to find not the joys of Eid, but my children in the hospital and a coffin containing only pieces of my mother.
Our family has not been the same since that drone strike. Our home has turned into hell. The small children scream in the night and cannot sleep. They cry until dawn.
Several of the children have had to have multiple surgeries. This has cost money we no longer have, since the missiles also killed our livestock. We have been forced to borrow from friends; money we cannot repay. We then use the money to pay a doctor, a doctor who removes from the children's bodies the metal gifts the US gave them that day.
Drone strikes are not like other battles where innocent people are accidentally killed. Drone strikes target people before they kill them. The United States decides to kill someone, a person they only know from a video. A person who is not given a chance to say – I am not a terrorist. The US chose to kill my mother.
Several US congressmen invited me to come to Washington, DC to share my story with members of Congress. I hope by telling my story, America may finally begin to understand the true impact of its drone program and who is on the other end of drone strikes.
I want Americans to know about my mother. And I hope, maybe, I might get an answer to just one question: why?