Seeing a psychologist

[mintyicedtea]

I am planning on seeing a counselor for depression, among other things. She came highly recommended by friends, who saw her for various reasons.

I think it might be helpful for my son to talk to the psychologist about some issues he's been dealing with for a while (not depression). Do not plan to have him medicated or anything of that sort.

IF he sees her, would this need to be reported for DoDMERB?

 

[Jcc123]

Seeing her may not trigger anything - it's why he's seeing her that's the issue. Anxiety? It's a problem. Depression, a problem.

The thing is, if he needs to see a psych, then he does and he should. You wouldnt withhold dental care because of a potential dodmerb issue would you?

 

[5Day]

Just visiting a psychologist per se is not reportable, but any diagnosis is. Getting medical care is always the most important thing to do, but you always want to manage any diagnosis. Be upfront with the psychologist and let them know that DD is planning a career in the military and that a diagnosis could jeopardize their career. If your DD is a minor you can probably be totally involved in the process. If they are over 18 they will need to do the managing.

 

[5Day]

Another thought. Since it is your psychologist it may be possible to have your DD talk to them as your family member and not as a patient. Often they will want to speak with family members to get a better insight into your issues. Again, being up front to avoid any unwanted diagnosis.

 

[Letsdothis2]

Just visiting a psychologist per se is not reportable, but any diagnosis is. Getting medical care is always the most important thing to do, but you always want to manage any diagnosis. Be upfront with the psychologist and let them know that DD is planning a career in the military and that a diagnosis could jeopardize their career. If your DD is a minor you can probably be totally involved in the process. If they are over 18 they will need to do the managing.

Actually, at 14 (pretty sure that's national) kids have total rights to their mental health care. Parent may not be all that involved, IF the kid wants to handle the process independently. The kid needs to be prepared to say he/she does not want a diagnosis..... and insurance companies LIKE diagnoses, so psychs and therapists tend to hand them out for billing purposes. This is my day job......

 

[5Day]

Here is a good thread from the past http://www.serviceacademyforums.com/index.php?threads/therapy.36449/#post-355288
This post may be helpful:
"I recommend seeking "counseling" from a licensed clergy member (MDiv or Dr of Divinity). They have rudimentary training in therapy and isn't accessible via medical records.

Let me be clear to ALL...

If your issues included thoughts of suicide, homicide, or chronic major depression, I would recommend you seek the help of a licensed medical provider of any level.

Best of luck!
-Dr. G."