Last time I checked, there is nothing romantic or honorable about fighting a war.
For any kids thinking about joining the military for accolades, parades, benefits, and etc, you might get them or might not. The reality is somewhere along the chain of command, starting from the President to your immediate leader are going to make some decisions on how much your life is worth and take corresponding actions. Some leader makes a decision that it's too dangerous for helicopter pilot to conduct a close air support of an infantry platoon in contact. Is he or she saying one life has move value than than other lives? Perhaps. President Obama thought Bergdahl' live was worth five terrorists. Someone thought Private Lynch's life was worth more than one live to send in a rescue party. So if we have the best equipment, best training, or best leadership are made by someone along the chain of command. But one sure thing is this country will do everything it can, for whatever reason good or bad or practical, that the military will have the best of the best.