october12/03
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Hello everyone,
This is my situation:
I'm torn between either going to USAFA or a civilian school (University of Maryland or Howard University). From the beginning of this application process I have always want to go to a service academy, and my parents were on deck with this as well. But, when I got into USAFA they automatically starting having second thoughts (I have no military background in my family, so this is all very new to them). Now they are saying it's my choice, but in reality they want me to go to UMD or Howard to 1. Stay near home, and so I won't be isolated from them (I am the only child, so a lot will change in their lives if I go too + they would have to sell the house we live in right now, which they LOVE), 2. they are a bit worried about the lifestyle the academy has to offer (the discipline and strictness) (I am completely fine with it, and ready, but they are worried), 3. the commitment, since I want to be a doctor, with USAFA + Med School + Residency + Service Time, I would get out when I'm 43 years old.......So now I am in a state where they have kind of gotten to me emotionally, and I feel like I should attend UMD or Howard, to stay close. But, I also really want to go to Air Force, because it's too good of an opportunity to pass up and long term it will set me up better.
These are my goals:
I want to be a Doctor in the military, so regardless I would do ROTC at Howard or University of Maryland. (Howard also has this 6 year med program, which is a benefit of going there)
I also want to run track at the D1 level, all of these schools provide that.
I know that was a lot, but please provide insight if you can, because I am BEYOND lost on what to do.
Thank you.
This is my situation:
I'm torn between either going to USAFA or a civilian school (University of Maryland or Howard University). From the beginning of this application process I have always want to go to a service academy, and my parents were on deck with this as well. But, when I got into USAFA they automatically starting having second thoughts (I have no military background in my family, so this is all very new to them). Now they are saying it's my choice, but in reality they want me to go to UMD or Howard to 1. Stay near home, and so I won't be isolated from them (I am the only child, so a lot will change in their lives if I go too + they would have to sell the house we live in right now, which they LOVE), 2. they are a bit worried about the lifestyle the academy has to offer (the discipline and strictness) (I am completely fine with it, and ready, but they are worried), 3. the commitment, since I want to be a doctor, with USAFA + Med School + Residency + Service Time, I would get out when I'm 43 years old.......So now I am in a state where they have kind of gotten to me emotionally, and I feel like I should attend UMD or Howard, to stay close. But, I also really want to go to Air Force, because it's too good of an opportunity to pass up and long term it will set me up better.
These are my goals:
I want to be a Doctor in the military, so regardless I would do ROTC at Howard or University of Maryland. (Howard also has this 6 year med program, which is a benefit of going there)
I also want to run track at the D1 level, all of these schools provide that.
I know that was a lot, but please provide insight if you can, because I am BEYOND lost on what to do.
Thank you.