Thank you. Yes, that will all be on the table for discussion this weekend. I'm not sure I probably conveyed myself with plan B/C. Mich has a strong math and science program that has been proven to send kids to Nuke School (or so I've been told).
Throughout high school, DS has excelled in at min Freshman level courses. AP English/language, UofM Literature, UofM Writing, AP History, AP Statistics, UofM Calc, AP BC Calc, AP Biology, Honors Physics, University Physics plus a handful of HS engineering courses.. ACT junior year 34. Math 35. He did not take it senior year. I have no doubt he has the ability to excel in college courses. It's finding leadership opportunities while in college he's worried about. It has been pointed out however that ROTC will provide opportunities for leadership.
I have seen forum users on their 3rd go at the Academy, so I know there is no guarantee. I don't want him to choose a school that he won't be happy with if round 2 passes him by.
I agree with the bird in the hand!