To be honest I have no clue. As a parent I am now in chill mode waiting to be told about the emails if they come and I force myself not to read into anything anymore.
In the early days of SA, nom and ROTC applications I was at my kitchen window washing dishes, kid was home from school. A white prius pulls up outside the house with big black letters across the back hatch door (not a window decal) saying NAVY, an older gentleman sitting in the car with a pile of papers reading off something. Well I nearly fainted and I thought this is it!, something is happening!. So I ran off to make myself and house presentable in under a minute, didn't mention it to the kid so they could have a nice surprise. No knock on the door so I went back to the window and the car was gone!.
I found out later that my husband had sold an electronic something to someone on Next Door and he was coming to pick it up. The older gentleman was a Navy vet.