USAFABlueLine
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Our DS is about 2 years in at USAFA and is having a difficult time finding his place socially. While some socializing is built into the squadron system (which has been helpful) when outside of that structure, he hasn't found his "go to" group. Our understanding is that he has many acquaintances, but lacks close friends. Besides doing his own work to remedy this situation (it certainly isn't for lack of effort) we're also encouraging him to consider other connections at USAFA. Other than the various clubs and sports groups, which he has pursued, are there any other points of connection that are recommended? I know that clergy are often recommended as a safe place for discussion and we are already familiar with teal rope program, are there any others? As we know, the academies can be pressure cookers, and we just want to make sure he has someone to talk to in the absence of close friendships.
Other than this challenge, USAFA has been a good fit for him. We have been very hands off and he has successfully navigated USAFA on his own. We are incredibly proud of him. This nuanced situation though is more difficult for him to see from 10,000 feet so as parents, we want to at least understand what support might be available to him.
I'm curious if others have been in a similar situation as cadets or family members of cadets. I also welcome suggestions from the "long timers" on this board that are subject matter experts when it comes to the academies. Any thoughts or guidance would be appreciated. Thank you.
Other than this challenge, USAFA has been a good fit for him. We have been very hands off and he has successfully navigated USAFA on his own. We are incredibly proud of him. This nuanced situation though is more difficult for him to see from 10,000 feet so as parents, we want to at least understand what support might be available to him.
I'm curious if others have been in a similar situation as cadets or family members of cadets. I also welcome suggestions from the "long timers" on this board that are subject matter experts when it comes to the academies. Any thoughts or guidance would be appreciated. Thank you.