FatherFalcon
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In all fairness, this is only my second time posting. However, this struck something in me having seen my son go through the very same thing. First, let me say that I know how difficult this must be for you and your family. My son, was is the same spot and was dealing with similar struggles. During BCT, I received a random phone call from a number I did not recognize. It was my son saying he borrowed a phone. He was calling to check on the California Wildfires and if we were impacted. I found this strange considering we live in Silicon Valley and are no where near fire danger. I can hear in his voice he was distraught. My heart sank, and I felt helpless. I continued giving words of encouragement and urged him to break down these moments he wanted to quit into days, hours or minutes.
To this day, I am not sure if my son could pinpoint what prevented him from quitting, but he didn’t. He completed BCT, then immediately went onto academic probation his first semester. Again, he felt like he didn’t belong and wanted to quit. Through his counselor, they determined he was sleeping enough and had him go to be by 11pm whether or not he completed his home work or not. He got most academically improved his second semester.
I can say, through his four years, he continued participation in “OCM” (I think “Officer Christian Ministry) which he attributes to his helping him get through the hard times.
My son, graduated this year (class 2022). He received his dream job as a pilot. His two best friends (first roommates) were his best men at his wedding this past week.
What I can say for sure, is he doesn’t regret a single struggle and his still excited for this next phase!
God Bless and good luck to your son
To this day, I am not sure if my son could pinpoint what prevented him from quitting, but he didn’t. He completed BCT, then immediately went onto academic probation his first semester. Again, he felt like he didn’t belong and wanted to quit. Through his counselor, they determined he was sleeping enough and had him go to be by 11pm whether or not he completed his home work or not. He got most academically improved his second semester.
I can say, through his four years, he continued participation in “OCM” (I think “Officer Christian Ministry) which he attributes to his helping him get through the hard times.
My son, graduated this year (class 2022). He received his dream job as a pilot. His two best friends (first roommates) were his best men at his wedding this past week.
What I can say for sure, is he doesn’t regret a single struggle and his still excited for this next phase!
God Bless and good luck to your son