Thank you, and thanks for the advice! There seems to be a common theme of being told to enjoy civilian life before entering the academies, and I certainly will!
It isnt really "civilian life" as much as the current relationships you have and the uniqueness of your situation as a graduating HS senior. If you think about it, within the next 4 years, you will transition away from being with your family and current friends 24/7 to something far different. These changes happen in real time and seem gradual at first until you look back and see just how far you have gone.
Today, you spend A LOT of time at home. At college or a SA, you are physically there A LOT and see your parents one time every 3 months. That in and of itself is a huge change. For some, that is a good thing, and for others, it can take away their focus on the new mission. At a SA, your schedule is VERY FULL and in my case, there was little time to dwell or reflect on this because there was so much commanding your attention.
Upon graduation, you are a full grown adult with a real job, real challenges, bills, and actual things you are responsible for. You will move to a corner of the globe that may mean you see your family even less (in person) for a little while. So you go from almost 50% of every day of your life for 18 years straight, to once per 3 months seemingly overnight, to maybe Christmas or Thanksgiving simply because you graduated college...
While a member on Active Duty status, you do get 30 days vacation each year, but most would tell you that number is not realistic to actually use per year, but the point is - change is on the horizon so appreciate what you have today. Present day YOU doesn't see it, nor can you anticipate it, but this is a pivotal time in any young person's life and as much as the old people tell you - it is human nature to live in the now much easier than to keep an eye ahead on tomorrow. Future you will appreciate you spending the time with Mom and Dad today. If there is a BF or GF in the picture, and you see a future with that person, don't steal the time from Mom and Dad.
Alone time with your parents is dwindling and time with the BF/GF is only increasing as you start a life together.