NROTC NSI - Parents / Families attend? Perspectives.

Herman_Snerd

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Seeing lots of nice updates that people have been offered and some are accepting their NROTC scholarship offers. If families/ significant others/ guardians, grandparents are considering attending the graduation ceremony, here are a few details.
1. It will be livestreamed - some families opt to "watch" the ceremony online vs attending in-person.
2. It will be brief. Watch prior year ceremonies online. Typically less than 30 mins.
3. There will be traffic. If you opt to attend, seek to get on base early so you don't watch the livestream from your phone, in the long queue of the security checkpoint gate at Great Lakes.
4. It will be a brief window to interact with your mid - Keep in mind that after the ceremony your new Midshipman (gender agnostic term) will have a precious few minutes to talk with those they just went through this experience with, then will be whisked away to the airport for their return home. A couple of the grandparents were upset like hey, I flew all this way and largely got ignored. Yep, of course there are stories of a mid who ignores their peers and talks with family, but that doesn't always happen. It's their moment.
5. Some families connect with their mids/ treat others who have time before boarding at the airport to a nice meal - a nice gesture if you can work it out/ are also traveling back via the same airport.
6. You can pick up your mid if that is what you arrange/ coordinate for travel. If you live within a driving distance, or have the proverbial money out the wazoo so you don't mind traveling for such a brief event, then attending makes sense. I personally would opt for a college visit instead where you'll have more time.

Much like I tell my buddy who packs in and wears a fannypack when traveling throughout Europe, silliness be d*mned - hey, you do you y'all, just pointing out that I do not regret not attending NSI graduation in-person. Sure, wild horses could not have kept me away from commissioning/ graduation/ winging (eventually). We opted to have a bit of a welcome party at the airport/ a cake and mini party back at home which for us was a better investment and provided more facetime before the less than 24 hour heading out to college the next day (He was NSI 3, and had to go to college early for their NSO orientation).

Good luck/ hope that may help those considering options.
 

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I agree with the above. Wife and I attended NSI last year. It was fun, but only because we treated it as a couple days away rather than specifically just to see DS after NSI graduation. It isn't long. It is also very difficult to find your new Midn in a sea of new Midn's. They all look the same. It took us 10 minutes just to find him after graduation(he told us wrong company), so we only had about 5 to talk with him. We did make sure to be on the same plane as he on the way back home, so we got lots of time at the airport which was nice. If you can get cheaper airfare or use miles with a cheap hotel, I would recommend going. I don't recommend bringing a ton of people or spending alot of money to see it in person. It is just a 1st milestone of MANY milestones to come in the next few years. Don't go into debt to see it live.

Also be ready for your child to be changed after this experience. More attentive, appreciative, cussing like a sailor, and changed in other ways. Some will go away over time, but it is interesting to speak with them about there experience. Your new Midn will also be sick. Cough, congestion, pink eye, and other symptoms are likely with a raspy voice for yelling for the last 2.5 weeks. It will go away after a week or so.
 
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