I have a couple of questions to ask and I hope you dont laugh at me for these questions. 1) How do academy grads meet their spouses? Hopefully having a family o e day is very important to me and I feel like I won't be able to meet many girls if I attend the academy. Like are there mixers and such? Also, whe in the military and stationed at a base, can you still go out and meet girls? 2) Are academy grads highly sought after for jobs after the military? I am just wondering because I am still not sure if I want to make a career out of the military and was wondering of after those five years of service whether they will be sought after or not. I feel like those five years are a big gap in time since most civilian college grads would have time for job experience. Thank you, my family and I have no experience with the military and I was just unsure about these questions.